The first thing is to know how it happens. The father to be has X and Y chromosomes. The X chromosome represents the baby girl and the Y chromosome is for the baby boy. The X chromosome is slow as far as motility is concerned but has a longer life and it may live inside the vaginal tract for as long as two to four days. The Y chromosome on the other hand is faster than the other but has a shorter life span.

The baby boy sperm is said to be weaker because it has difficulty withstanding the vaginal PH from the opening to the cervix. Couples who want a baby girl should take advantage of this fact.

Now that you know of this natural advantage, the next thing is to be perfectly sure of the exact day of your ovulation. This is because you need to know the right day for you and your husband to have sexual intercourse. The high PH of the vaginal tract should be given attention because of the said long trip of the sperm to the egg.

Going for a baby girl, you should bear in mind that you should create a hostile environment for the boy sperm so that he will not make it first to the egg. An advanced technique to know the acidity of the vagina is using testing strips that are readily available. Once you know your current level of acidity then it is time to adjust to a level that is more suitable for you.

Increasing your acidity may be done in two ways. You can either go on a special diet or go for douching. There are lots of special recipe for you and douching solutions as well. However, you might want to note that many health care professionals state that douching is dangerous because it might spread or introduce infections and so on.

The next thing to know is to have the correct position during sexual intercourse. This is related to the long travel of the sperm to the egg. You must go for the proper position to make it hard for the fast but weak sperm that is the boy chromosome so that the girl sperm will make it before the boy does. The missionary style is best for this purpose.

It is important to understand that you must take everything into consideration in order to come up with the right results. Doing only one of the things mentioned above may or may not deliver the results that you want.

If you are planning for a baby then there are a few things you will need to be aware of to ensure you successfully conceive. Having a baby is the most precious gift a couple have that comes with great responsibility. If you have thought about it carefully and decided that now is the right time to begin having a baby than Baby Steps ABC will do all we can to help you to conceive.

When planning a family it would be advisable to see your doctor and Gynecologist just to make sure everything is working properly and if not than it is best to deal with fertility issues early. Polycistic Ovarian Syndrome PCOS is a condition, which can be linked to difficulties in getting pregnant and having a baby. If you have PCOS then you may recognise some of the symptoms such as excess hair growth, difficulty in losing weight, irregular periods and sometimes painful period pains are just some of the symptoms.

One question that almost always gets asked by women is when to start taking Folic Acid and the short answer is that it’s a good idea to start taking it before you begin trying for a baby. Folic Acid is known to help counter Spina Bifida, which can be very serious to your unborn child’s health.

Men should start to wear loose boxers and refrain from taking hot showers or baths and take it easy when exercising and driving as men will want to make sure that they have healthy supply of semen and that it is motile (active). A good multivitamin daily supplement pill should be beneficial, as would be a healthy diet. Lay off of the junk foods and keep your weight in check. Male infertility can be attributed to many factors, too many to go into, but as we say, let’s cross that bridge if we come to it as all is not lost.

When can I expect to conceive? This is another popular question and the short answer is nobody knows. All you can do is make sure that everything is ready and that you and your partner are doing all that you can to ensure a healthy pregnancy. There are so many conception tips and conceiving help articles on this site that can help you and we are always adding to this site to ensure that you get pregnant and have a baby that is healthy.

Informal gender selection – First, we will discuss the informal techniques used to choose gender of baby. Most of which, like a baby gender quiz or a baby gender calculator, lack scientific proof and is more often than not, disagreed by health care providers. In this method, choosing the sex of your baby is believed to start in the bedroom. Having sexual intercourse comes with timing, a specific position and the frequency of the intercourse – all these need to be closely monitored throughout the conception period. Dr Landrum Shettles, a famous personality, upholding the informal gender selection technique believes that several methods ca be done in order to have a girl or a boy. To increase the chances of having a baby boy, sexual contact should happen 24 hours before  ovulation. The intercourse should be done in such a position which allows the sperm to get faster to the eggs. On the other hand, if you want to have a girl, intercourse should be done on a frequent basis – right from the start of the cycle until ovulation. It is also believed that the missionary position increases the chance of having a baby girl.

The informal method of gender selection has a number of pros and cons. The pros include having a great chamce of choosing baby sex as opposed to not trying ay all. On the other hand, the downside about this technique is the inadequacy of the method, frustration and imperfect timing.

Formal gender selection – Some couples make use of formal techniques to be able to choose gender of baby. These medical methods separate the X-bearing from the Y-bearing chromosomes to result in either a female or male fetus. Embryo selection, a type of vitro fertilization, is also another formal method of gender selection. This process can be a little bit costly and is usually used to enable someone to become pregnant.

The advantage of going for formal gender selection techniques is that they have high rates of success and a lower chance for failure. The pros; however, will include high costs, dealing with ethical issues and having to undergo medical, sometimes surgical, procedures.

If you favor a certain gender for your next pregnancy, feel free to consider either of these methods. Just keep in mind the consequences, the costs, the process and the other factors of the technique you choose. If you have a strong religious faith, for instance, going for a formal method may stir ethical issues among your group. Weight the consequences and the costs. Choose one which will fit your needs, beliefs and lifestyle best.

Top Baby Names

In the 90s, the most popular name for a boy was Michael.  For the past five years, the most common name has been Jacob.  Other popular names include Joshua, Matthew, Ethan, Andrew, Daniel, William, Joseph, Gregory, Jonathan, Benjamin, and Christopher.  If you are looking for a classic, these baby names have been popular for years.

The most popular name for a girl has not changed in the past fifteen years.  It continues to be Emily, and is currently followed by Emma, Madison, Olivia, Hannah, Abigail, Isabella, Ashley, Samantha, and Elizabeth.  Except for Ashley and Elizabeth, the popularity of the others is recent and affected by pop culture, especially television shows.  

Other sources of popular names are best-selling novels and celebrities.  After Gweneth Paltrow named her daughter Apple, many people have done the same.  The Harry Potter books and the Lord of the Rings movies have also added many names to the list of the most popular.  

Unusual Baby Names

One way today’s parents have created unusual names for their children is by changing the spelling of a popular name.  Variations that are becoming less unusual include Emilie, Elisabeth, Karin, and Erika.  Names like Stacy can be spelled in three different ways (Stacy, Stacie, Staci).  

Another way to personalize a baby name is to use a nickname as the child’s full name.  For instance, Ben instead of Benjamin, Jon instead of Jonathan, and Matt instead of Matthew are becoming more common.  

Other unusual sources for baby names come from the world around us.  The popularity of names such as April and May continues to come and go, while names such as Winter, and Hazel are still unusual.  Consider choosing a baby name reminiscient of the time of year when your child will be born or the time of year they were conceived.  Fruit, vegetables, colors, and the adjectives that describe them are a good starting point (Pear, Lemon, Azure).  Other uncommon names are those of plants and flowers, such as Hyacinth, Daisy, and Fern.

Other ideas to get you thinking:
Africa
Autumn
Butterfly
Calla
Kansas
Peach

Names that describe an ideal or a personality, such as Hope, Grace, Prudence, Patience, Temperance, or Chastity, are still unusual although not entirely unique.  Other descriptive baby names include Cadence and Candid.

Other unusual names come from sources that are not commonly used today.  While Biblical names are popular, Greek mythology is only rarely used.  Your child may be the only one in their class to have the name Athena, Minerva, or Pan.  Or you could give them a name from another culture, such as the Swedish Carina or the Polish Aleksy.  

Baby names from other cultures include:
Anuket – Egyptian mythology
Augustyn – Polish
Crina – Romanian
Dimitriy (Dima) – Russian
Freya – Norse mythology
Hestia – Greek mythology
Kirill – Russian

The possibilities are endless!  But as mentioned above, remember that if the source of your baby’s name is a television show, novel, or celebrity, the name may not be that unusual when they begin school several years down the road.  This is especially true for girls.  Look for Apple, Reese, and Uma to be popular over the next five years.

Perhaps you’d like something even more original.

Unique Baby Names

If you don’t want your child’s name to be the same as anyone else’s, you can create a unique baby name.  These names can have many sources.  The more common methods of creating something original are by the combination of family names or the addition of a syllable or letter to a popular name.  An example of the latter is Kylen, a unique girl’s name which stems from the boy’s name Kyle.  Unique baby names which may come from a family name include Stafford, Prestoff, and Kilin.  While some people may find these better suited for a middle name, others may prefer their unique nature.

A sampling of unique names:
Baton
Jaico
Kermin
Lorelai
Mady

The Meaning of a Name

For some people, it doesn’t matter whether a baby name is popular or unique, it just has to mean a certain thing.  Rather than choose a baby name with an obvious connotation such as Spring, Grace, or Rose, they want a name that will bring goodwill to their child through its ancient origin.

Some popular as well as unusual baby names include:
Adelaide (Adelia, Alyssa, Allison) – noble
Albert – bright
Alethea – truth
Beatrice – traveller
Cara – beloved
Colbert – bright
Darwin – friend
Elfleda – beauty
Gertrude – stength
Hannah (Anna) – favor, grace
Henry (Henrietta) – power
Isolde – beauty
Keisha – favorite
Letitia – joy
Manfred – strength
Osmund – protector
Robert (Bob) – fame
Vivian – alive

Tips For Choosing

There are many things to consider when you finally select a baby name.  Will this be a name your child can use for life, or will it sound silly when it refers to an adult?  Will this name cause your child to be picked on?  Will they have to constantly correct people in its pronunciation or spelling, and does this concern you?  Are there any stereotypes (good or bad) associated with it?  

One last concern is: does it fit with your last name?  Generally it sounds better if there are a different number of syllables in the first and last names.  Only rarely should the first letter of the first and last names be the same.  This is of course more of a concern for boys, as they will keep their name for life.  Of course, any decisions about hyphenation in the last name should be made before the first name is chosen.

Try not to get overwhelmed by the possibilities.  After all, you have nine months to make this decision!  Leave yourself open to the myriad sources of ideas, and you will find the baby name for you.  And of course, if you let people know you’re looking, friends, family members, and even coworkers might add their own suggestions!

Keep these things in mind, and you will choose a popular, or unusual, or unique baby name that your child will be proud of for life.

Over the weekend, I received an email based on information from a woman who asked me, in part: “if I suffer intercourse or sex a certain sum of days before ovulation, might their affect the baby’s gender or whether I have a boy or a girl baby?” The secret to now problem can be yes, but it is really not as straight post as all of that. Getting Pregnant Before Ovulation

I’ll discuss this more in the subsequent to article. How Having Intercourse In The Days Before, After, Or During Ovulation Can Affect Baby Gender: Before I get into which days are best for which gender, I want to explain why this is so. Basically, a man’s sperm contains X and Y chromosomes. (The woman’s contain only X.) If an X sperm chromosome is the one that fertilizes the egg to result in a pregnancy, then you would get a female baby.

If you’re hoping for a son, then you should hope that it’s a Y which fertilizes your egg. But, not being able to see inside the reproductive tract to see what’s going on, how in the world can you influence whether it is X or Y who is the ultimate winner? Well, you use what you know about their differences. The sperm that makes baby boys is sort of the guys who live fast and die young. They are fast swimmers but they burn themselves out much quicker than the X sperm, who are slow and steady and who also have longevity on their side. And, this is where the days before or after ovulation come in to play.

Since the Y sperm is so short lived, you really do not want to have sex before ovulation (if you want a male baby.) Because in this case, you would have weakening and dying off sperm chromosomes waiting around and getting weaker by the hour. If you are going for a boy baby, you are much better off shooting for the actual day of ovulation. This is really the gold standard. If you have to, you can go into the next day (one day after) but this is as far as you should go. It won’t hurt anything to keep trying AFTER this time frame (but not before.) It just likely won’t be successful after a few days.

On the flip side of the coin, if you want a girl, you should know that the X sperm chromosomes can afford to hang out and wait. They aren’t nearly as weakened or deteriorated by this process. And, since you actually want for the Y’s to die out, then you’re much better off having intercourse in the 3-4 day period before ovulation occurs. This can be harder to pinpoint than the day of ovulation since most of the predictors that you buy in the store only give you the day of – not the days before. For this, I like saliva predictors which I believe to be more accurate, especially in predicting the days before the egg is ready. You really do not want to blend into the time period before or after when you are trying for a girl. You want to be very precise. Getting Pregnant Before Ovulation

Don’t Stop With Ovulation Timing: What I’ve discussed previously is pretty important, but you really should not stop right there. You should also make sure that you have the optimal PH for the gender that you want. For example, if you are wanting a girl baby, then you need to be acidic because acid will help in the Y sperm deterioration process. But, if you want a boy baby, then you want to be alkaline because this is the only environment that is gentle enough not to harm these guys. You can find out your PH by using little litmus strips that should not run you over $20.

Then, if you are not at the level you want, you can raise or lower with either douching or a special diet. I would recommend you also get yourself a very good food list if you are going this route because some lists will tell you that a certain food has a high PH without taking into account that it turns alkaline once it begins to become metabolized. This can make a big difference. But, you would likely see this difference if you are using the strips every day and trying to determine which foods are actually working the best for you.

Another thing that you can do is to have shallow intercourse if you are pulling for the X’s and deeper penetration if you want the Y’s to be successful. I’ve put together a few websites that take a lot of the guess work out of choosing your baby’s gender when getting pregnant. You’ll find step by step instructions, resources for douche recipes and food pH lists, information on when to conceive, tips, support, and examples of ovulation predictors / pH testing strips. Start raising a family! Get Pregnant Today by getting Getting Pregnant Before Ovulation ebook now!

Some want a baby boy first and then a baby girl.  Some parents envision their perfect family of two of each.  Without dealing with petrie dishes and technicians, can you make the determination of the sex of your baby on your own? Some say that you can.

There are a lot of reasons why people might believe that beyond idealism they just really want a baby boy or baby girl next.  Most often this occurs when a family has a large brood of children all in the same gender and the family wants one more child to complete the family.In some cultures it also occurs because of population control. For centuries people have been trying to use various methods to increase the possibilities of having a specific gendered baby.

Gender Selection Seminars and Books

There are seminars people attend to learn to determine the sex of  their next baby. There are also hardcover, paperback and electronic books available to help you make lifestyle choices that can definitely sway the odds in the favour of a boy baby or a girl baby.

Some experts suggest that the following can have an impact on whether you get the x’s and y’s or just the x’s in terms of chromosomes in male sperm.

-intercourse position

-diet of male and female prior to conception

-vitamin and supplement use

-time of sex during the woman’s monthly cycle

-body’s pH level

-presence or absence of orgasm in males and / or females

-Increasing fertility in males and females

Regardless of what your reasons are in wanting a boy or wanting a baby girl, getting educated about prenatal care and learning about effective help for trying to conceive can only empower you to have a healthy and happy pregnancy.

Psychologically, it can be frustrating if you are hoping for a boy and get a girl and vice versa but more than the vast majority are happy with whatever the results are.  It doesn’t hurt to learn how to possibly tip the scales in favour of your ideal choice though.

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What is gender selection? This is the term coined to the method of increasing one’s chances of having a child of a certain sex. Couples are now open to using fertility treatment techniques to increase the odds of conceiving either a boy or a girl. To have a boy for instance, the woman’s egg is fertilized with a man’s sperm. Eggs carry X chromosomes while a sperm can carry either an X or a Y chromosome. If a Y chromosome fertilizes with an egg, you will have a boy. If an X-bearing chromosome unites with an egg, then you will have a girl.

You may wonder: why do couples want to choose the gender of their child? There are many reasons why couples use gender selection techniques. Some of the reasons have something to deal with the social, economical and cultural benefits of having either a boy or a girl. The reasons include the following:

l        Genetic disease prevention – There are couples who want a certain gender choice in order to prevent certain genetic disorders from being passed on. Hemophilia, for instance, is a disease which occurs only in boys. If hemophilia is part of the family history then some couples hope for a girl instead of a boy.

l        Family rebuilding – Some parents who lost a child wish to rebuild the family again by having a child of the same gender. The couples would seek out baby gender selection methods and choose one which will fit their needs and lifestyle best.

l        Balancing – Another common reason why couples favor a certain gender is family balancing. They want to balance the number of girls and boys and  so they choose a certain type of sex.

For some, gender selection is an easy option. To some; however, concerns on ethics, legal and morality become a huge issue. All these issues can make it difficult for couples to decide on the type of treatment to choose, the clinic to pick and the like. Opponents of gender selection techniques, most of whom with the religious side, stand that these procedures are ethically and morally against the Christian dogma.

If you are 100% sure of pursuing any of these baby gender selection techniques, confirm baby gender using a medical process like a baby gender ultrasound to lessen the flaws of inaccuracy.

Despite the many advances in technology that we have today, there are a few situations wherein the couples are greeted by an unexpected baby gender. For most, this is not a big deal but for a few people, this can be very disappointing, traumatic and difficult to accept. In this article, we discuss the various possible reasons for gender disappointment.

The parents were sexually abused as a child – Those moms who have had an unfortunate experience on sexual abuse as a child may experience depression and anxiety in taking care of a boy – especially of they abuser was a male. Others, on the other hand, fear the anxiety of not being able to protect their daughter from a potential abuser; thus, not wanting to have a girl. It is believed that those who experience disappointment of having a boy, can lose the dilemma after the baby is born. On the other hand, those who are scared of giving birth to a girl usually feels okay while the baby is still inside the tummy but starts to feel anxious once the baby is born. Parents who experience this dilemma should keep in mind that it is impossible to be with your child all the time; however, we can do the best we can to protect our child while we are with them.

Some parents feel unable to connect to a specific gender – In some cases, mothers do not see themselves taking care of a baby girl or a baby boy. For instance, if the mother is not too feminine, one of her fears is not being able to impose femininity to her daughter. The same thing is true for single mothers who are about to give birth to a boy. They fear that will fail in raising a man.

They have had enough – Some parents couples who have had 3 boys would hope for a girl for their fourth born. The same thing is the case for couples who have had 3 girls. They have big hopes of finally making a girl. This situation can cause anger, huge disappointment, depression and sadness on the part of the parents.

Pressure from the family – Some couples are pressured by their parents or relatives to have a boy. This may have something to do with old family traditions and inheritance issues.

Regardless of your baby’s gender, a newborn is a precious gift to you and your family. He deserves all the love and affection from the entire family. Prove to your baby that you are the best mother he could ever have by learning to accept him for who he is.

rning to accept him for who he is.

One area you could consider concentrating on is your diet. It is known that women who eat a diet predominantly rich in alkaline foods are more likely to conceive a boy and those who eat acidic foods are more likely to have a girl.

Alkaline foods tend to include nuts, leafy green vegetables, carrots, beetroot, buckwheat, soy and tofu. Acidic foods include beef, chicken, eggs, dairy products and flour. Obviously, it is important to strike a balance between eating foods of the correct pH level and eating a healthy balanced diet which is important for conception. You must therefore explore the nutritional values of the foods which you choose, as it is perfectly possible to have a balanced diet whilst eating predominantly eating an acidic or alkaline diet.

To conceive a boy, it is also recommended that you eat slightly more of the recommended calorific allowance each day and to conceive a girl, it is thought that eating no more than your recommended daily intake can help.

There are other very specific methods which can help you to select the gender of your baby naturally and some experts feel that by using a multifaceted approach which employs a number of different methods at once will give you the best possible chance of having a baby of the gender of your choice.

If you would like to see a range of tried and tested methods, there is, there is an excellent guide which is based on scientific rather than anecdotal principles. It includes dietary information and the exact gender clinic douche recipe which normally retails at $450. In addition, you can also subscribe to a completely free newsletter which gives hints and tips on natural gender selection. To see this 3 step comprehensive risk-free method of how to have a baby girl, which has proven to be 95% accurate, please visit Select The Gender Of Your Baby Naturally

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