For many people, voicing this wish would seem almost ungrateful. Some would say that if you have children, you are lucky enough as it is and wanting to have the luxury of choosing your baby’s gender is somewhat presumptuous. However, only those who have been in this situation can really understand what it’s like to have a deep, aching longing for not just any baby, but a girl or boy to complete your family.

There are various simple steps you can take which will dramatically increase your chances of conceiving a baby of your desired sex. Most of these center around knowing about the mechanics of conception and the nature and differences between male and female sperm.

Male sperm (Y sperm) is fast and small but does not survive for very long. It also prefers mildly alkaline conditions.  Female sperm, on the other hand, is larger and slower but can survive for longer and prefers acidic conditions.

This information is invaluable if you are choosing your baby’s gender. To have a boy, have intercourse as close to ovulation as possible to maximize the chances of the fast male sperm reaching the egg first. To conceive a girl, have intercourse a couple of days before ovulation so that the slow female sperm will be waiting for the newly released egg whereas the male sperm will have perished after a few hours.  

PH testing strips (available online) can be very helping in choosing your baby’s gender by determining whether the vagina is acidic (favoring a female) or alkaline (favoring a male). If the levels are not conducive for a baby of the sex of your choice, there are mild douches you can use and slight dietary alterations to help sway the odds in your favor.

If you would like to see tried-and-tested methods which will help you choose the sex of your baby, there is an excellent guide which is based on scientific rather than anecdotal principles. It includes dietary information and the exact gender clinic douche recipe which normally retails at $450.

In addition, you can also subscribe to a completely free newsletter which gives hints and tips on natural gender selection. To see this 3 step comprehensive risk-free method which has proven to be 95% accurate, please visit Choosing Your Baby’s Gender

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What is gender selection? This is the term coined to the method of increasing one’s chances of having a child of a certain sex. Couples are now open to using fertility treatment techniques to increase the odds of conceiving either a boy or a girl. To have a boy for instance, the woman’s egg is fertilized with a man’s sperm. Eggs carry X chromosomes while a sperm can carry either an X or a Y chromosome. If a Y chromosome fertilizes with an egg, you will have a boy. If an X-bearing chromosome unites with an egg, then you will have a girl.

You may wonder: why do couples want to choose the gender of their child? There are many reasons why couples use gender selection techniques. Some of the reasons have something to deal with the social, economical and cultural benefits of having either a boy or a girl. The reasons include the following:

l        Genetic disease prevention – There are couples who want a certain gender choice in order to prevent certain genetic disorders from being passed on. Hemophilia, for instance, is a disease which occurs only in boys. If hemophilia is part of the family history then some couples hope for a girl instead of a boy.

l        Family rebuilding – Some parents who lost a child wish to rebuild the family again by having a child of the same gender. The couples would seek out baby gender selection methods and choose one which will fit their needs and lifestyle best.

l        Balancing – Another common reason why couples favor a certain gender is family balancing. They want to balance the number of girls and boys and  so they choose a certain type of sex.

For some, gender selection is an easy option. To some; however, concerns on ethics, legal and morality become a huge issue. All these issues can make it difficult for couples to decide on the type of treatment to choose, the clinic to pick and the like. Opponents of gender selection techniques, most of whom with the religious side, stand that these procedures are ethically and morally against the Christian dogma.

If you are 100% sure of pursuing any of these baby gender selection techniques, confirm baby gender using a medical process like a baby gender ultrasound to lessen the flaws of inaccuracy.

According to many Mothers in today’s world, and Fathers too, it is possible! The gender selection diet will have you altering what you eat to increase your chances of conceiving either a girl or a boy.

For hundreds of years women have been trying everything possible to influence the gender of their yet to be conceived children. In today’s society where our governments tell us what is and isn’t ethical, and make rules that it’s citizens have to abide by, then taking certain matters into our own hands was bound to happen sooner or later.

Natural gender selection and all of the differing methods that surround it are quickly surfacing to replace the illegal (in certain countries) medically assisted methods. Gender selection by medical intervention in some countries is now only allowed for certain purposes. To prevent varying genetic and hereditary illness and disease from being passed down the line of more generations.

What the gender selection diet does exactly no-one is sure. Some believe that it makes the woman’s body acceptable to either the male or female sperm. How it does this is yet again another question that can’t be properly answered. Some believe that the gender selection diet can alter the acidity of the mucus inside the vagina, high acidity is said to favour a boy, low acidity, a girl. Douching used to be a technique that some women used, although experts tend to steer women away from this method now as it has been linked to causing infection.

Whatever it does do, doesn’t seem to matter as couples all over the world are raving at it’s success rate. While it can be no where near 100% successful ( only one method can claim to be 99-100% successful and that method is medically assisted!) It seems to be tipping the balance for natural gender selection. As long as it takes you above the 50% chance of success that you have already, then I guess it’s worth a try!

It does seem easy to follow, eat more of a certain food type to tip the balance in the gender stakes. The only problem seems to be… What if you don’t like what you’re told to eat?

To see what types of food can help in your quest for a boy or a girl, check out http://www.new-baby-and-beyond.com/gender-selection-diet.html

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In today’s society, where we have a choice in everything major in our lives, from where we are going to give birth to our babies, to pre planning our own funeral. Is it right that we can determine the sex of a baby before it’s even conceived?

Apparently so… Gone are the days when a fourth little girl would cause disappointment to the father. Gone are the days of fingers crossed and hope for a boy.

It’s all out there for us if we care to look. Gender selection products and methods are easily available, so we can have a baby to fit into our preplanned lifestyles.

Baby sex selection methods can range from the ‘very expensive’ to ‘the very cheap’. Microsort & PGD weigh in at the top end of the scale, and have approximately 80% chance of giving you what you want. But could you imagine paying thousands of pounds for a bouncing baby boy, and being in the 20% that end up with a little girl.

That’s right, around twenty percent of people will spend lots of their hard earned money, and still not get what they wanted!

So onto those cheaper gender selection methods, and even a couple of free tips!

Whether you are purely desperate enough to try anything, or just trying it for the fun of the whole experience – with a little bit of “how great would it be if it really worked!” Here a few theories (based on the Shettles method) to think about.

Alter your diet. This is supposed to work by altering the PH balance in your body, making cervical mucus more hospitable to either male or female sperm (whichever is your choice)

Douching, making either alkaline or acidic douches to alter your cervical mucus, again favouring either the male or the female sperm.

Timing of sex (no not with a stopwatch!) But the timing of when you have sex. A few days before ovulation will favour a girl. A few hours before ovulation to a few hours after, a boy.

Sexual positions, the theory that certain positions can control the depth of penetration and exactly where the sperm is deposited. Because male sperm are more aggressive and swim faster than female sperm, which are more alike to ‘ Slow and steady wins the race’. It can make a difference to the gender outcome, with how close those sperm end up to the cervix.

And for the Dad to be, a nice cup of coffee before intercourse will give those male sperm an adrenalin fix!

And the free tips? – For a girl

Remember these are just for fun

Make love on even numbered days.
Make love when it’s a full moon!
Initiate the lovemaking (dominant women are more likely to have a baby girl)

For a boy

Make love on the odd numbered days.
Let the man climax first (Is there an option!)
Let the man initiate the lovemaking and you are more likely to conceive a boy.

Article by Julie Gardner

If you would like to see these methods in more detail then visit me, Julie at

http://www.new-baby-and-beyond.com/shettles-method.html

The Shettle’s Method – The theory is based on the idea that the sperm which contains Y chromosomes move faster than those which contain X chromosome. This technique recommends that if you want a baby girl, having sexual contact everyday – from the last day of the woman’s menstrual period until about 3 days prior to ovulation – will help increase the chances of conceiving one. The Shettle’s method further states that the missionary position to facilitate sperm deposit closer to the entrance of the vagina.

The O+12 Method – This technique was developed by a woman who was desperate enough to conceive a girl after having six sons. The method proposes having sexual intercourse approximately 12 hours after ovulation will conceive a girl. The proponent of this theory was successful and finally gave birth to a girl on her seventh pregnancy.

The Whelan Method – This technique somehow contradicts what the Shettle’s theory states. Dr. Elizabeth Whelan, propenent of the Whelan Method posts it that Shettle’s method bases its assumptions on studies which are related to artificial insemination. She opposes Dr. Shettle’s by saying that couples who try to conceive the natural and old-fashioned way are more likely to have a baby girl especially when intercourse is done during a time close to ovulation.

Chinese Conception Chart – Also known as the Chinese Birth Chart is an at-home gender selection technique for couples who want to have a baby girl. The technique uses a chart which cross-references the baby’s date of conception and the mother’s current age. Studies have claimed that the chart is 90% accurate but still found no conclusive proof to date about how the method exactly works. If you plan of using this method, note that when calculating, the month of conception can be achieved using the Chinese lunar month while the mother’s age can be derived through her lunar age.

Over-the-counter medications and dietary supplements – it is believed that taking certain medications as well as supplements can help increase your chances of conceiving a girl. A good example for this is the Lydia Pinkham’s Herbal Compound. This supplement is said to help women conceive a baby girl by creating an acidic environment around the vagina which makes the sperm carrying Y chromosomes difficult to survive.

If you intend to use any of these methods, note that none of these techniques have been proven to be 100% sure. The same way that some couples use a free baby gender test to find out about their baby’s gender during the early weeks, the methods stated above lack of scientific basis.

No matter what your reasons there are simple, natural, at home steps you can take that can raise your chance conceiving a baby girl from the normal 50/50 to well over 94%!

The late Dr. Landrum Shettles developed these three simple steps to help you conceive a child of the gender of your choosing, many years ago. Many thousands of couples have used these steps to conceive the baby girl they have always dreamed of. Let’s take a lokk at these steps in a little more detail shall we?

You will have to keep track of the day you ovulate for several months, and precision is key here. Get this right and you’ll be a lot closer to conceiving that little baby girl you want.

2. You’ll want to have sex to conceive using only shallow penetration. This is because you want to give the sperm a long and difficult journey to the egg (if wanting a girl) so the boy sperm dies off leaving only the girl sperm alive to do the deed.

3. Your bodily ph will have to be controlled. You can accomplish this in two ways diet and/or douching. By eating the right foods and with the addition of a few supplements you can over time (it won’t change overnite) effectively lower you body’s ph, or to look at it another way you’ll be raising your body’s acidity. You will need to check you ph regularly and the best way to do this is with ph test strips, which you can buy through links on my site. Douching although effective has been known to cause infections, so I would recommend douching to control your ph only under your doctors supervision.

These techniques while being low-tech and easy to implement will still need to be implemented with precision and diligents if you are to be successful in conceiving that baby girl you desire.

You can visit my site for more information or links to one of the guides you’ll need as an ebook you can purchase and download in minutes. If you are truly serious about gender selection, you should seek all the help you can, and even if you fail in your attempt of conceiving a baby girl, you may still have a beautiful baby boy to love and cherish

Visit PICKTHE GENDEROFYOURBABY.com and concieve the baby girl you dream of having.

No matter what your reasons there are simple, natural, at home steps you can take that can raise your chance conceiving a baby girl from the normal 50/50 to well over 94%!

The late Dr. Landrum Shettles developed these three simple steps to help you conceive a child of the gender of your choosing, many years ago. Many thousands of couples have used these steps to conceive the baby girl they have always dreamed of. Let’s take a lokk at these steps in a little more detail shall we?

You will have to keep track of the day you ovulate for several months, and precision is key here. Get this right and you’ll be a lot closer to conceiving that little baby girl you want.

2. You’ll want to have sex to conceive using only shallow penetration. This is because you want to give the sperm a long and difficult journey to the egg (if wanting a girl) so the boy sperm dies off leaving only the girl sperm alive to do the deed.

3. Your bodily ph will have to be controlled. You can accomplish this in two ways diet and/or douching. By eating the right foods and with the addition of a few supplements you can over time (it won’t change overnite) effectively lower you body’s ph, or to look at it another way you’ll be raising your body’s acidity. You will need to check you ph regularly and the best way to do this is with ph test strips, which you can buy through links on my site. Douching although effective has been known to cause infections, so I would recommend douching to control your ph only under your doctors supervision.

These techniques while being low-tech and easy to implement will still need to be implemented with precision and diligents if you are to be successful in conceiving that baby girl you desire.

You can visit my site for more information or links to one of the guides you’ll need as an ebook you can purchase and download in minutes. If you are truly serious about gender selection, you should seek all the help you can, and even if you fail in your attempt of conceiving a baby girl, you may still have a beautiful baby boy to love and cherish

Visit PICKTHE GENDEROFYOURBABY.com and concieve the baby girl you dream of having.

The tips and tricks below will teach you how to have a boy baby.  They’ve been gathered and compiled together using carefully plotted research over a period of many years.  With just a few modifications to your diet, exercise, and sexual routine, you can determine gender of baby each time, every time.  Here are just some of the techniques you should be using in order to have that son you’ve always wanted:

* The Shettles Method – One that that’s been proven beyond a shadow of a doubt: male sperm (y-sperm) travel faster than female sperm (x-sperm).  It’s also been noted that the x-chromosomed sperm die out faster than the female ones, which live longer and tend to have more endurance.  Taking this into account, the shorter the distance that needs to be traveled to reach the egg – the MUCH greater your chances are of having a male child.  As the distance gets further, your chances of conceiving a girl are greatly increased.

Where does this all apply in how to have a boy baby?  The answer is simple: the closer you have intercourse to your exact ovulation date, the better your chances of having a male child.  Try to plan as much sex as possible on or about the date of ovulation (usually 1  day before or after).  The Shettles technique recommends having sex as early as 24 hours before ovulation up to and including no more than 12 hours past the predicted time you ovulated in order to greatly increase your chances of conceiving a boy.

* Foods to Conceive a Boy – Bananas!  Salty foods, dairy products, and bananas are all said to help gender selection boy efforts.  Eating more calories than normal can do it also, and it’s been shown that women who are getting a full supply of all necessary nutrients tend to create more male babies.  Be sure to be taking the best prenatal vitamins.

* Caffeine – Right before intercourse, the male partner should drink 1 to 2 cups of caffeinated coffee or a similar beverage.  This gives a supercharged boost to the already fast x-sperm, increasing chances for a male-favored conception.

* Adjust Your pH Level – Making sure you have the proper pH levels in your reproductive tract is one of the most important ways to choose the sex of baby.  An acidic pH will tend to destroy sperm, with the x-sperm dying off more quickly (remember – they’re faster but not stronger than y-sperm!).  This leaves the unwanted condition of higher levels of y-sperm in a man’s semen.  So when trying to conceive a baby boy, make certain you’re promoting an alkaline environment by not eating a lot of spicy or acidic foods.

* Boxers or Briefs? – If you’re looking to create a son instead of a daughter, your best bet is boxer shorts.  The further from the body the testicles are allowed to hang, the more regulated the temperature of a man’s semen.  Keep them in close to the body, as in the case of briefs, and many sperm will die from the higher temperature levels.  And since the male sperm die faster than female sperm, this hurts your chances of having a boy.

* Sexual Positioning – Once again, the speed of the individual x and y sperm plays a factor here.  The closer the male can deposit semen to the woman’s cervix, the better the chances of an x-sperm reaching the egg first.  Therefore, choose positions to conceive a boy during intercourse that allow for the deepest possible penetration.  It’s been suggested that the ‘doggie-style’ position is one of the best ways to accomplish this.

* Orgasms During Sex – It’s been proven that if the female partner accomplishes orgasm during sex, two things happen: one, the contractions help move the sperm upward and into the cervix.  Two, the endorphins released into the body during orgasm create a more alkaline environment, which we already know is better for male sperm.  When trying for a boy, keep this in mind!

Determining gender of baby pre-conception has been something people have been trying since the dawn of time. In the past, the techniques to accomplish choosing a boy or girl child involved a lot of guesswork, some old wives tales, and maybe a tiny bit of science. There were foods to conceive a boy, positions to conceive a girl, exercises to do and elixirs to drink. Right or wrong, these methods were hard to prove effective… or even ineffective. Under normal circumstances you have a 50/50 chance of producing the desired sex anyway, so unless you the same methodology is closely followed and that data is gathered over a longer period of time – there’s just no way of knowing which gender selection pregnancy techniques worked best. Until now.

The tips and tricks below will teach you how to have a boy baby. They’ve been gathered and compiled together using carefully plotted research over a period of many years. With just a few modifications to your diet, exercise, and sexual routine, you can determine gender of baby each time, every time. Here are just some of the techniques you should be using in order to have that son you’ve always wanted:

* The Shettles Method – One that that’s been proven beyond a shadow of a doubt: male sperm (y-sperm) travel faster than female sperm (x-sperm). It’s also been noted that the x-chromosomed sperm die out faster than the female ones, which live longer and tend to have more endurance. Taking this into account, the shorter the distance that needs to be traveled to reach the egg – the MUCH greater your chances are of having a male child. As the distance gets further, your chances of conceiving a girl are greatly increased.

Where does this all apply in how to have a boy baby? The answer is simple: the closer you have intercourse to your exact ovulation date, the better your chances of having a male child. Try to plan as much sex as possible on or about the date of ovulation (usually 1 day before or after). The Shettles technique recommends having sex as early as 24 hours before ovulation up to and including no more than 12 hours past the predicted time you ovulated in order to greatly increase your chances of conceiving a boy.

* Foods to Conceive a Boy – Bananas! Salty foods, dairy products, and bananas are all said to help gender selection boy efforts. Eating more calories than normal can do it also, and it’s been shown that women who are getting a full supply of all necessary nutrients tend to create more male babies. Be sure to be taking the best prenatal vitamins.

* Caffeine – Right before intercourse, the male partner should drink 1 to 2 cups of caffeinated coffee or a similar beverage. This gives a supercharged boost to the already fast x-sperm, increasing chances for a male-favored conception.

* Adjust Your pH Level – Making sure you have the proper pH levels in your reproductive tract is one of the most important ways to choose the sex of baby. An acidic pH will tend to destroy sperm, with the x-sperm dying off more quickly (remember – they’re faster but not stronger than y-sperm!). This leaves the unwanted condition of higher levels of y-sperm in a man’s semen. So when trying to conceive a baby boy, make certain you’re promoting an alkaline environment by not eating a lot of spicy or acidic foods.

* Boxers or Briefs? – If you’re looking to create a son instead of a daughter, your best bet is boxer shorts. The further from the body the testicles are allowed to hang, the more regulated the temperature of a man’s semen. Keep them in close to the body, as in the case of briefs, and many sperm will die from the higher temperature levels. And since the male sperm die faster than female sperm, this hurts your chances of having a boy.

* Sexual Positioning – Once again, the speed of the individual x and y sperm plays a factor here. The closer the male can deposit semen to the woman’s cervix, the better the chances of an x-sperm reaching the egg first. Therefore, choose positions to conceive a boy during intercourse that allow for the deepest possible penetration. It’s been suggested that the ‘doggie-style’ position is one of the best ways to accomplish this.

* Orgasms During Sex – It’s been proven that if the female partner accomplishes orgasm during sex, two things happen: one, the contractions help move the sperm upward and into the cervix. Two, the endorphins released into the body during orgasm create a more alkaline environment, which we already know is better for male sperm. When trying for a boy, keep this in mind!