Despite the many advances in technology that we have today, there are a few situations wherein the couples are greeted by an unexpected baby gender. For most, this is not a big deal but for a few people, this can be very disappointing, traumatic and difficult to accept. In this article, we discuss the various possible reasons for gender disappointment.

The parents were sexually abused as a child – Those moms who have had an unfortunate experience on sexual abuse as a child may experience depression and anxiety in taking care of a boy – especially of they abuser was a male. Others, on the other hand, fear the anxiety of not being able to protect their daughter from a potential abuser; thus, not wanting to have a girl. It is believed that those who experience disappointment of having a boy, can lose the dilemma after the baby is born. On the other hand, those who are scared of giving birth to a girl usually feels okay while the baby is still inside the tummy but starts to feel anxious once the baby is born. Parents who experience this dilemma should keep in mind that it is impossible to be with your child all the time; however, we can do the best we can to protect our child while we are with them.

Some parents feel unable to connect to a specific gender – In some cases, mothers do not see themselves taking care of a baby girl or a baby boy. For instance, if the mother is not too feminine, one of her fears is not being able to impose femininity to her daughter. The same thing is true for single mothers who are about to give birth to a boy. They fear that will fail in raising a man.

They have had enough – Some parents couples who have had 3 boys would hope for a girl for their fourth born. The same thing is the case for couples who have had 3 girls. They have big hopes of finally making a girl. This situation can cause anger, huge disappointment, depression and sadness on the part of the parents.

Pressure from the family – Some couples are pressured by their parents or relatives to have a boy. This may have something to do with old family traditions and inheritance issues.

Regardless of your baby’s gender, a newborn is a precious gift to you and your family. He deserves all the love and affection from the entire family. Prove to your baby that you are the best mother he could ever have by learning to accept him for who he is.

rning to accept him for who he is.

No matter what your reasons there are simple, natural, at home steps you can take that can raise your chance conceiving a baby girl from the normal 50/50 to well over 94%!

The late Dr. Landrum Shettles developed these three simple steps to help you conceive a child of the gender of your choosing, many years ago. Many thousands of couples have used these steps to conceive the baby girl they have always dreamed of. Let’s take a lokk at these steps in a little more detail shall we?

You will have to keep track of the day you ovulate for several months, and precision is key here. Get this right and you’ll be a lot closer to conceiving that little baby girl you want.

2. You’ll want to have sex to conceive using only shallow penetration. This is because you want to give the sperm a long and difficult journey to the egg (if wanting a girl) so the boy sperm dies off leaving only the girl sperm alive to do the deed.

3. Your bodily ph will have to be controlled. You can accomplish this in two ways diet and/or douching. By eating the right foods and with the addition of a few supplements you can over time (it won’t change overnite) effectively lower you body’s ph, or to look at it another way you’ll be raising your body’s acidity. You will need to check you ph regularly and the best way to do this is with ph test strips, which you can buy through links on my site. Douching although effective has been known to cause infections, so I would recommend douching to control your ph only under your doctors supervision.

These techniques while being low-tech and easy to implement will still need to be implemented with precision and diligents if you are to be successful in conceiving that baby girl you desire.

You can visit my site for more information or links to one of the guides you’ll need as an ebook you can purchase and download in minutes. If you are truly serious about gender selection, you should seek all the help you can, and even if you fail in your attempt of conceiving a baby girl, you may still have a beautiful baby boy to love and cherish

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